Continuing conundrums…
Now to suggest that SAAK knows little about the human condition is a fairly substantial understatement…. but he really, really does not get it.
To recap …. SAAK met a lovely girl at a work shindig… they got along well, in fact SAAK would suggest they got along very well. However, life being life, SAAK soon received the call of “friends”, which he has always understood to mean “leave me the fuck alone”.. fair enough, not the first female to dislike SAAK (he’s not a pretty boy).
First enigma, since then, SAAK has been in constant correspondence with said girl, phone, text and email, mainly initiated by her… at least once a day…
Okay, SAAK does not really understand.. we’ve seen each other twice since, both were very friendly, kiss hello and goodbye stuff.. but hey where could this go, nothing has been mentioned about the friends thing.
Current concern … nothing in the last week… SAAK sent and e-mail and a text with no reply, until now, if SAAK sent a message one would come back almost instantaneously.
?????? SAAK is of the opinion that he is too old for this…..
End of whinge
To recap …. SAAK met a lovely girl at a work shindig… they got along well, in fact SAAK would suggest they got along very well. However, life being life, SAAK soon received the call of “friends”, which he has always understood to mean “leave me the fuck alone”.. fair enough, not the first female to dislike SAAK (he’s not a pretty boy).
First enigma, since then, SAAK has been in constant correspondence with said girl, phone, text and email, mainly initiated by her… at least once a day…
Okay, SAAK does not really understand.. we’ve seen each other twice since, both were very friendly, kiss hello and goodbye stuff.. but hey where could this go, nothing has been mentioned about the friends thing.
Current concern … nothing in the last week… SAAK sent and e-mail and a text with no reply, until now, if SAAK sent a message one would come back almost instantaneously.
?????? SAAK is of the opinion that he is too old for this…..
End of whinge
posted by scaryasakitten at 9:06 PM
2 Comments:
All this mucking around! No-one EVER gets it - it's always confusing and hurtful.
She is flirting with you. Doh!
It doesnt mean she IS interested.
It means she is trying to get to know you better. Right, understand this. You got big points (well you would with me) for sharing the bed and not going the grope. For not coming on heavy. See, she liked it,
it made her feel comfortable around you. Then the texts. "Friends?" could mean, hey I want to keep in touch, get to know you better. What should she have texted you? "Marry me" ?
We don't all decide if someone is boyfriend material on first aquaintance. And she kept texting you didn't she?
If you are still in touch you should use the "Hey, we slept together" line. It's great! Said with a smile it's playful and cheeky. If you are like some reserved people I know you are probably not giving her any interested vibes at all for fear of being rejected.
Engineer a chance to catch up with her or be in the same area and suggest catching up for lunch or something. After all, you've slept together and you didn't even buy her a meal first.
Or she maybe she owes you a coffee for hogging the doona.
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